Changing your life isn't easy. It's very tough. I mean, incredibly hard.
For anyone who really has seriously attempted to make some significant changes in their life because they couldn't handle living in the same way any longer, you've possibly experienced the growing pains that come along for the ride with deciding to live in an other way. You are consistently tested, you fail time and again, and it's hard to see the world in the light of positivism.
Nonetheless it doesn't necessarily demand to be that way.
You see, folk battle with deep change because they really do not know how to act when the negative emotions start bubbling up. They suspect that because negativism is occuring that they must be doing some things wrong. No! Not at all. In fact, if you're wrestling and it hurts a little, you are doing things right. You're growing. You're moving past your comfort zone.
When you're going through big changes, you're going to come across some important difficulties. Agony is going to come out to play, your interior critic is going to run wild, and you are going to have some struggles. In truth, that is fantasically ok! It really means you are heading in the correct direction. Don't quit now when you are really suffering discomfort. Keep going and see it all the way through and you'll cross the finish line a transformed person.
The "Frying Pan Of Life" is all about the way to get near enough to the agony to work with it without being consumed by it. When you are making a new life, old things have a tendency to seep out and you've got to spend some time working with them. This is a natural part of the growing process. But you have got to work with them because if you do not, you run the risk of allowing the past to sabotage your dreams.
So how do you do this?
You have to get near enough to the agony and experience it without getting totally consumed by it. You have to be content to bring yourself to the painful places and let the thoughts and feelings swirl around you without taking you totally out of the game. When that can be done, you give yourself access to the lessons and light that are held within that dark place.
This takes a little bit of skill and plenty of practice, but if you can truly spend a while working in these dark areas with some compassion and love, you can defrost even the coldest of hearts.
For anyone who really has seriously attempted to make some significant changes in their life because they couldn't handle living in the same way any longer, you've possibly experienced the growing pains that come along for the ride with deciding to live in an other way. You are consistently tested, you fail time and again, and it's hard to see the world in the light of positivism.
Nonetheless it doesn't necessarily demand to be that way.
You see, folk battle with deep change because they really do not know how to act when the negative emotions start bubbling up. They suspect that because negativism is occuring that they must be doing some things wrong. No! Not at all. In fact, if you're wrestling and it hurts a little, you are doing things right. You're growing. You're moving past your comfort zone.
When you're going through big changes, you're going to come across some important difficulties. Agony is going to come out to play, your interior critic is going to run wild, and you are going to have some struggles. In truth, that is fantasically ok! It really means you are heading in the correct direction. Don't quit now when you are really suffering discomfort. Keep going and see it all the way through and you'll cross the finish line a transformed person.
The "Frying Pan Of Life" is all about the way to get near enough to the agony to work with it without being consumed by it. When you are making a new life, old things have a tendency to seep out and you've got to spend some time working with them. This is a natural part of the growing process. But you have got to work with them because if you do not, you run the risk of allowing the past to sabotage your dreams.
So how do you do this?
You have to get near enough to the agony and experience it without getting totally consumed by it. You have to be content to bring yourself to the painful places and let the thoughts and feelings swirl around you without taking you totally out of the game. When that can be done, you give yourself access to the lessons and light that are held within that dark place.
This takes a little bit of skill and plenty of practice, but if you can truly spend a while working in these dark areas with some compassion and love, you can defrost even the coldest of hearts.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to take the journey of your life? Dive into these life goes on quotes for some wise words on what it means to live honestly.
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